Dating for outdoor people
I set out to write about gear and outdoors stuff and all of a sudden I’m a relationship columnist. I’m the last person any of you should take advice from in that department. Relationships, though; I just don’t know why I keep putting myself through it. So, an unintended consequence of listing all the great things about outdoorsy women in my last article was the contact from a bunch of guys who say they want to meet and woo a fantastic outdoors woman but can’t find any (first of all, guys, you appear to be looking on the Internet. Evidently, there are scads of lonely hearted men out there searching for their Lynn Hill but only finding Carrie Bradshaw. If where you’re going is full of guys, you already know there are no women there. Don’t say stuff like “oh my god, a woman doing [activity]! ” There’s no good way to respond to that statement and even if she would otherwise find you attractive, you’ll probably turn her off, saying moony stuff like that. If you happen to cross paths with a woman whom you find attractive, TALK TO HER. Don’t gaze at her bike and drool “nice ride” while staring at the top tube. If you want to date HER, look at HER and talk about HER.
What can I say, I must have high hopes; either that or I enjoy pain. The ladies greet this complaint with skepticism, as do I, I must admit, but since it apparently is a common issue I thought I’d try to address it somehow. When a man says something like that to me I reflexively think, “you need to get out more.” Women in general don’t like getting treated like freaks of nature and that’s how you come across when you say things like that. When you’re on the lift next to a hottie, talk about something other than her skis. You can use the gear as an ice breaker, but change the subject quickly if it’s really a spark you’re after. If you are lucky enough to ride with a woman you find attractive, don’t try to show off.
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You won’t find who you’re looking for in the usual crowd of bros at the popular powder spots. So if the Banff Mountain Film Festival comes to your town, you’ve a high likelihood of a bunch of like-minded people assembling in one room to watch it, don’t you? Don’t just go in, take your seat, and mindlessly wait for the magic to happen. But same as the above, if you see someone shopping for skis, chances are SHE SKIS. ) but most people I consulted for this article say that clubs and meetup groups are a great way to go about expanding your social circle. Anything to keep this skookum Sally (do non-Alaskans know that term?
You put a bunch of dudes together and women drift away. Admittedly, this one can come off as smarmy if you’re not careful. I pretty much know that people congregating in clubs are not the people I want to meet, so I have the same problem as you guys – it’s hard to meet people, ANY people, otherwise (which would be the entire point of being a loner, now, wouldn’t it?